Wednesday, October 13, 2010

My Kind Of Perfect 1.0

Hello, little girl. Welcome home :)

I fall for you at first sight, as I watched you from the other side of the nursery's window. The baby boy next to you was crying his lung out (maybe he's trying to get your attention already?), but you were sleeping so serenely. When the nurse finally brought you out, I had you in my arms and I wished I never have to let go at all.

As your old, wise, very vogue aunt, I would like to impart some words of wisdom, in no particular order of importance, things for you to remember as you grow up:

1. Your mom and dad are two very amazing person.

2. No one should look down on you, or tell you “You can’t do that” or dismiss your opinion just because you are a girl.

3. Boys are nice and fun, but sometimes they make you cry. (And if anyone ever hurt you, let me know and I will wallop their sorry asses for you)

4. Read and travel. A lot.

5. In reference to point number 3, someday you'll find a great boy who will wipe all those tears away. Don’t be afraid to fall in love, don’t be afraid to fall out of it. If you ever need a confirmation that in love, good things come for those who could endure the test of life and that God knows better what is good for you, ask me to tell you the best love story I have ever known, and I’ll tell you the story how your mother met your father.

6. Anuar Zain is a really good singer.

7. Family comes first, then your girlfriends (in most instances, they are even more important than your boyfriend). These girls will be your pillar of strength and the ones you can call in the middle of the night without a second thought. Make sure you surround yourself with a few that you can really trust. Never, never, never backstab a fellow girlfriend, because you won't want them to do the same to you too.

8. A woman could never have too many handbag or shoes. And Isetan is a magical place.

9. Treat others – young or old people, rich or poor – nicely and equally. Never based your relationship with others according to their wealth, status or how they look like.

10. When everyone else seems to desert you, remember that Allah never did. He always listens, so pray a lot – give Him thanks when you are happy and cry your heart out to Him when you are sad.


  1. sooooo adorable!!!love babiesssss..cant get enough of them.and the smell..ahhhhhhh mcm candu ok!haha congrats aunty!

  2. Waaaaahhh so comel! I want a girl! Please please please!!! BTW I love point number 8, very the true.

  3. pesanan yang baik

  4. fatmaaa..loveee ur kata2 nasihattt..aku nk pinjam pesan kat my lil zara jugak la eh ;)

  5. sweeettt! Teringat plak lagu Will Smith - Just the Two of Us...

    One day some guy's gonna break you heart,
    And ooh ain't no pain like from the opposite sex,
    Gonna hurt bad but don't take it out to the next, girl!

    Hehehe terbalikkan sikit since anak buah kau girl =p

  6. i wonder what will u 'IMPOSE' to your own daughter one day .. esp about the shoe and handbag and annuar zain part... but do ask them to be nice to man one day.

  7. hahaha... Anuar Zain pon termasuk dlm nasihat ini kah?... and totally agree on the gurlfriends part... Awesome entry Fatma... As always...